In as as deep you may be in love with your partner, remember there are things you should not do because it will affect the happiness, unity, and intimacy of your marriage or relationship.
Take a look at them below;
1) You Find it Difficult To Apologize Tour Partner After Issues Are Resolved. If you are the type that always wants their partner to be the one who apologizes anytime there's a misunderstanding, then you're wrong
After any disagreement, you'll not say anything, you can't say sorry, and you'll just ghost your partner offline and online till they come begging, if you have this habit, please repent.
A Relationship needs effective and quality effort from both parties, your partner shouldn't be the ONLY PERSON making peace ALL THE TIME is your responsibility as well.
2) YOU CAN'T KEEP SECRETS.
The thing your partner told you in confidence, they'll hear it in the market tomorrow, excuse me, you be loudspeaker?
Everyone around us knows about EVERYTHING said and done in your Relationship and Marriage, why? Is your Relationship/Marriage a Reality TV show? Control your anger, and your words, you are in charge so it will not make you take action you regret later.
3) YOU WON'T STOP FLIRTING.
If you are in a Relationship or Married, know that how you act and relate with members of the opposite gender matters.
You are in a Relationship or Married, yet you have no boundaries with the opposite gender, you call them romantic names, or babes, leave them flirtatious messages online and offline, and act or talk in a way that encourages them to think of having an affair with you, remember you are endangering the happiness of your marriage by this act.
Don't give your partner Pressure and make him or her feel unloved by you.
4) YOU BRING YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE DISAGREEMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE TO SOCIAL MEDIA. Don't go to social media to say things bad against your partner, remember there will always be disagreement and misunderstanding in or marriage or relationship, the best step is to resolve it amicably with your partner and not to involve strangers in it.
People will understand that something is wrong in your relationship/marriage when you make such posts, that's a disrespectful and hurtful thing to do to your partner.
Have any issues in your marriage or relationship? keep your relationship challenges away from social media, if there is any crisis you can not settle within yourself easily, then involve the service of a marriage counselor to help you settle the issue.
The weakness of your spouse should not be seen outside, remember internet never forgets.
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