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The 15 Principal Factors That Enhance The Marital Experience.

Contrary to the popular belief of so many people, God doesn't build anyone's marriage to a particular taste or shape the person wants it to be; it's solely the responsibility of you and your partner to build your marriage. Whether your marriage will have bad experience or not, it is the responsibility of you and your spouse to build the Marriage of your choice.

Here are the list of the 15 principal factors that can enhance your marital experience.

1) Always cherish your marriage: Any marriage that is treated casually will end up making the couple casualties.

2) Believe in the concept of a blissful and happy marriage: In marriage, it is your mindset that will determine your marital experience. Don't go into marriage thinking that later in life your marriage will crash or it will end up in separation, divorce, or as a broken marriage. Marriage is sweet and bliss but it depends on you.

3) Make cherishing your spouse a routine: In as much marriage is concerned, you must learn to make your spouse the best person that has ever come to you. Hold him or her in high esteem over every other person in your life.

4) Love yourselves unconditionally because that will help you to love your spouse: From the day you are married, God expects both of you to love each other unconditionally. This shouldn't be determined by what you do or don't do for yourselves, if not then it's not unconditional love anymore.

5) Respect yourselves nonstop: Both spouses should respect each other no matter what comes in between you and your husband. Treat your spouse with respect in secret and in public places, don't do eye service.

6) Live as best of friends even if you were not best friends before marriage: Your spouse is not your enemy, and I know you will not for any reason get married to your enemy. The only enemy of man is Satan. Enjoy each other's closeness because that is what your marriage needs to progress and prosper. Be free with each other whenever you are together. Enjoy yourselves as twins or as bone and flesh.

7) Be humble to each other: Marriage is not a place where proud people cohabitate. It is a place of humility at its highest peak. Pride is an enemy of marriage and a proud couple will never ever has a blissful marriage. It doesn't happen.

8) Give a good understanding of yourselves in your marriage: In marriage, understanding is key. It is important you must understand who your spouse is in the first place, his or her personality traits, temperament, emotional needs, spiritual needs, intimacy needs, fears, and strengths, etc.

9) Be tolerant and forgive yourselves without keeping records: Nobody is an island of specialty in marriage. You should learn how to tolerant and forgiving at all times. Without these two important factors, be ready for a broken marriage.

10) Be selfless, Make sacrifices because it will prolong the life of your marriage: Marriage is a place of selfless people, you should be selfless and make sacrifices for each other, remember only your wife can not make the marriage successful.

11) Be romantic don't be a boring spouse: Let your love and marital experience be like a flowing river uninterrupted. Let your love for your wife or husband know no bounds.

12) Be partners in progress and not partners in the past: A thriving marriage is a place where spouses are partners in progress. Is your duty to work hard to achieve your personal and family goals.

13) Create and spend time with your family as much as possible: Your family needs you more than your wealth or riches. Create and spend time with your family members, remember that they are the ones you are working hard to take care of, so spend time quality with them as much as you can, and don't just take care of their financial needs.

14) Be united with your family: Nothing kills a marriage like a disunity home. Together you will face life's happy moments and adversities and overcome them as well, but divided you will fall and fail woefully.

15) Make God the center or pillar of your family: God shouldn't be left out of your home if your marriage will be godly, joyous, and successful. Ungodliness opens up the marriage door to Satan to strike and prevail against your marriage. The Good factor is enough to settles the problem that will infidelity, dishonesty, and disloyalty. Truly godly spouses don't cheat in marriage because they not only respect their spouses' trust given to each other, but they fear God and obey his command regarding marriage also.

With all these principal factors explained here, I pray that your marriage will be blessed, awesome, sweeter, blissful, and happy henceforth in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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