5 Ways You Can Avoid Heartbreak In Your Relationship.

I have come across numerous stories of heartbreak, and it made me realize that avoiding such pain is possible. Here's how you can do it:

1. Establish accountability: Breaking a relationship becomes much harder when you have someone to answer to. Find someone you trust, like your Pastor, Coach, or mentor, whom you can be accountable to.

2. Pay attention to conversations: Listen closely to the conversations you have with your partner. Pay attention to how often the person make use of the word "I" instead of the word "we." Do they involve you in their future plans? This will give you insights into the level of commitment and involvement they have in the relationship with you.

3. Define the relationship: Assumptions can be dangerous sometimes. If you feel like someone is getting too close and you are unsure about their intentions, don't hesitate to ask questions immediately. A healthy Communication is one of the keys to understanding your lover's expectations and avoiding misunderstandings between you guys.

4. Trust your instincts: We are blessed with the gift of intuition. Pay attention to your gut feelings and instincts. Often, God sends us signals about something important in our life, but we tend to ignore them. Listen to your inner voice it will help and save you from unforseen circumstances.

5. Enter a relationship when you are ready for marriage: It's important to be in a relationship when you are emotionally and mentally prepared for the commitment of marriage. Starting a relationship at a young age, like 14, may not lead to a lasting intimacy. Give yourself time to grow and discover what you truly want from your partner.

Bonus tip
Focus on adding value to yourself. Be someone who is confident, independent, and constantly growing in every area you can. When you become a person of value, other people will recognize and appreciate you. This will make it less likely for someone to want to let you go out of their lives once they have you in their life.

The solution is life on God's terms.

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