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How To Avoid Bad Marriage.

After receiving salvation from our Lord Jesus Christ, the next most important decision you need to make in your life is who to marry. This choice or decision is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for it for a long time, if you get it right then you will enjoy it for the rest of your life. A bad marriage can affect every other areas of your life irrespective of your status in society.

This topic is very important in marriage. So many married couples are hoping to be single again so they can make the right choice regarding who to marry. If you are single please don't just be in a rush to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it now and not after you are already married.



For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony under one roof as husband and wife, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically to be together.

Just like an elephant cannot marry an antelope so also a believer should not marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an antelope how would they live as one inseparable body meanwhile they don't leave in the same territory, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet to discuss the affairs of their marriage? 

You must look for a Godly and God-fearing man or woman to marry, nothing can beat this except if you don't want to achieve it. The devil's primary target is always the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people to get married, then he has succeeded and this single decision will affect the community and nations negatively.

Ignore your age and the pressure that's coming from friends and family members for now. The pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse than the pressure to get married. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right before meeting the person. 

What do you need in a woman you want to get married with? What do you need in a man you want to spend your life with as your husband? Marriage is not just about what you want to enjoy, it is about who you need so that the enjoyment can be peaceful and long lasting, someone that will make you better while you make him better too. Make God your number 1 decision maker and it will be easy for you.

This is why you must know your purpose before you get married to anyone. In Genesis 2:18. You must pray before you choose who to marry. God knows the best person for you to marry, it is only wise to seek His will at all times.

It is very easy to know God's will when lovemaking has not started. The moment lovemaking is involved and you want to know His will he will blank you out because you didn't put him first in the beginning. Also because you have broken His first Law of NO LOVEMAKING before marriage. 

If you have made love in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God for him to take charge. Your marriage will not be hell on earth if God is totally involved. Your marriage will be honorable in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Don't marry because you want to be enjoying lovemaking, don't marry because you are of age and don't want to be single anymore, don't marry because you are getting old, and all your school mates and colleagues are all married, don't marry because you are lonely, and needs someone to keep you company don't marry because you need someone to support you financially since your financial responsibility is increasing, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, or she is pregnant for you, don't marry because you don't want to loose the person you are dating, don't marry because of family and friends pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see whenever you attend a wedding, don't marry because all your friends are getting married then you decided to join them to answer Mrs. But get married because you want to fulfill your destiny, your responsibility, your obligations as a man or woman who should procreate.

Get married because you want to be a help mate to your spouse. As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose of God for continuation of human race. God will help you in choosing the best person to marry, please let His will be done as you allow him. 

This is just the easiest way to avoid bad Marriage.

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